Second spring change jobs
The continued downturn in the global economy, making Taiwan a originally supported by foreign trade in general economic region, which have been hit most severely, regardless of the economy announced by the Government or the unemployment rate signal, but the community is generally filled with a gray atmosphere ʱ?? In particular, many well-known manufacturers of departure or collapse, there is more, the large companies have massive layoffs, private enterprise in Taiwan, Japan did not originally form diehard years the staff, but, in this an unprecedented wave of violent waves of recession, there are many white-collar workers in the prime of life is unexpectedly lost his job, which even many of them had high-paying sectors of the staff. And once these people halfway unemployment, due underachievement, want to re finding jobs tend to be more difficult than the blue-collar labor work.
When Ms. Wu brows, came Master of worried before Yi-Kwei Chen, immediately reveal the current social situation in a typical microcosm of the economy, she has been begging for some confusion:
"I have heard people say your name, originally coming early to ask you, but it seems to have no serious events can not be solved, so did not dare to trouble you, but this time, I really had to come, In addition to you, probably no second person can help me out! "
"Oh! Do not be so quick to say! As long as there is no way to solve the troubles u, I will be happy to try that!" Master of Yi-Kwei pleasant to comfort her.
"Actually I was to my husband's job problems come today!" She said in a low voice.
"What difficulties do at work?"
"Unemployment is a problem it!" She is very shy significantly, however, this also shows that she also received quite educated woman, for this problem is not to say it frankly among the large crowd.
Master of Yi-Kwei Chen carefully looked at her husband's information; "Oh Well more than a year has still not found a new job yet!??"
"... ..." She shook her head; "No!"
"It's not find a job, but my husband did not want to find!"
"Oh! I know it!" Master of Yi-Kwei Chen quickly in her husband's data in to see the clues: "These days, others very demoralized and very depressed."
"... ..." She nodded: "Actually I was a civil servant, have a fixed income, so, even if he suddenly like temporary unemployment, our family does not live, but I was not worried that he could not find work, but afraid to see him so depressed ...... "
Master of Yi-Kwei Chen nodded, understanding the crux of her troubles. Indeed, unemployment is sometimes just not simply economic difficulties only, also includes a major frustration to the heart caused by man.
"He did not go somewhere every day, and had not contacted family and friends, in addition to eating and sleeping, the other time was half-lying on the couch holding a remote control there, dozens of channels in turn switched over so that I can certainly, his eyes staring at the TV, but probably nothing to see ... "
"Ah! This I can imagine, it should be a moment my heart still can not accept the fact, I will ask u sir ...... is engaged in what type of career?"
"He was originally a medium-sized air declaration in the company when the assistant manager, the big boss is a foreigner, but my husband he does not have a very high degree, is to start from the customs broker's younger brother, managed to climb to today's post ...... "Ms. Wu is lament for her husband:" He had a very hard, and very optimistic, the company also has a pivotal position, however, because trade downturn, Taiwan's business reduced very serious, more than a year ago, The company laid off half their breath staff, my husband was inside the highest office, when he was angry, almost like a bolt from the blue, because he is a veteran of the company, from the company's embryonic foreign boss that helped start it a drop of the company propped up, so he does not think he would be so ruthless cut? "
"I think this is the key!" Master of Yi-Kwei Chen earnest analysis with: "Because the problem is just one source of economic reasons, the main thing is a real efforts and achievements have been negative psychological problems, for a man such unintentional injuries than almost blow limbs broken even unbearable! Especially not prepared in advance, once suddenly, must be very difficult to accept. "
"Yeah! My husband also, and his foreign boss theory, no matter how angry he was, even pointing to the boss's nose cursed, he the boss just kept smiling and said to him," SORRY! I AM SORRY! "In addition the In addition, doing nothing other accountable, and this is my husband the gas, however, because he always thought that even if it is to reduce personnel, more than he should be cut a lot, how to say also fail to get his head? "she a pool of his hands: "Anyway, private enterprises, in addition to obediently receive severance pay, how can we?"
Master of Yi-Kwei Chen also empathy lament: "In Taiwan private enterprise, not to mention any guarantee at present the right to work, to put it bluntly number, some man-made boss of a lifetime dedication to youth, and finally hit the boss Malignant plant closing bunk, not just unemployment, even the arrears of salary and severance pay are not the most basic place to be, finally may need their own money to buy eggs miles! "
Ms. Wu did not sense the moment came, stared looking at the Master of Yi-Kwei Chen.
At this time, Master of Yi-Kwei Chen did not speak, but with gestures than a hurling motion, Ms. Wu was originally understood Master Chen said, "throw eggs to protest," which of course is no use, at most, only vent anger has, however, only a smile in her eyes right.
"Mr. u original treatment should be a good thing?"
"Okay."
"There should be hundreds of thousands, right?"
"Not so much more attractive ...... the foreign boss is very harsh, to less than one hundred thousand, in fact, to my husband's job and seniority in this line, should at least thirteen and forty thousand, but my husband has always been very heavy feeling, very nostalgic, so never intended to quit, but also so people like him so loyal, actually will be laid off, no wonder can be so angry ah! "
"! Ah" Master of Yi-Kwei Chen nodded that he understood, and then said:
"In fact, many employers in determining layoffs, cut is simply money, not people!"
"That is: the boss of the abacus are entered dialed in recession hit, we must lay off when he first consideration is not the emotional or the employee's contribution to the company for the past, but decided after the first can save a lot of layoffs Personnel salary expenses, and then cut those considered most able to meet such a savings policy, "Master of Yi-Kwei Chen drink some tea, said slowly:
"Therefore, since the last is always someone to be sacrificed, then cut a high-paid executives, cut the equivalent of three or four grassroots staff, Naixiang, no matter which boss emotionally willing, but with a person say" SORRY "than for three or four people eleven say" SORRY "to save it? ʱ??
Ms. Wu did not express anything, but listen to this speech moving and governance analysis, of course, some of her suddenly, at least not like her husband to be as bewildered and puzzled by the cut.
Silent child, Ms. Wu finally spoke:
"I do not care so much about him now down suddenly with no income, but rather just hope he can strike so quickly from the back to stand up, even if there is no way a little while to find the right job, but at least do not be so depressed decadent down ʱ??
"!! Ah for the" Master of Yi-Kwei Chen entirely agree with her opinion: "let the feelings come adapted to re-start!" Ms. Wu nodded in agreement.
"During this time, Mr. Do u have not tried to find a new job?"
"There it is! At first, he also hurry to find work, but now so depressed, all related industry is also difficult to operate, as in the layoffs, how will the employer? And my husband are not new staff, even if absolutely do not care about treatment, others see his qualifications also refused to use ah? "
This Master of Yi-Kwei Chen is entirely understandable, this is the middle-aged unemployed or forced many displaced persons the biggest crisis, in a nutshell is the "underachievement", even if they really are absolutely do not care about the treatment, just to find a low-paying job temporarily degree Satsuki, however, the boss backing a look at his qualifications did not dare, because one is such a person temporarily grievance mentality is soon to be, and secondly it is difficult to pipe miles, can not be the same as obedient as a rookie, it is difficult to command, the boss is willing to spend money to go to such trouble, even if the same people who want to spend money, direct solicitation for new rookie is still relatively easy.
"I really can not see passed, it will be your Master of Yi-Kwei Chen to help, my husband is very focused on the appearance of the original, they are wearing suits every day, no hot out lines he never wore a shirt, Now it seems like a new person, per day slovenly untidy hair is not combed, his beard is not shaving, even urging him to put away the bath water to take a bath, he would be furious, and now even children are afraid to talk to him, I see again If this continues, he either mad, for I have to go crazy, "said her eyes slowly red up
"Ah! You do not be sad, rest assured! Let me think of a way, I believe we can solve it!" Master of Yi-Kwei Chen compassion to comfort her, while encouraging in tone is very positive, and he has always been always so timely gives immense hope.
"Mr. Wu addition to the work has been, there is no other expertise?"
Ms. Wu thought, shook his head and said: "He seems in addition to the Bank's work, there is no other expertise miles!"
"Oh! That ...... he usually has no special hobby it?"
"Ah ... it seems to be no, usually in addition to work and family, he does not smoke or drink, almost no bad habits, to be honest, he really is a very good standard of men do!"
"Oh! U misunderstood, I do not mean the kind of bad taste, want to know those things, he usually also more interested in it."
"He seemed to prefer the car wash, in addition to the original one to work with the car, we have a jeep, previously encountered holidays he often drove our family to travel up the mountain to the sea, just shortly before the change of a seven-seat SUVs, he said that such things can only be fitted luggage and more, go camping more convenient. "
Then Master of Yi-Kwei Chen expressed understanding, and then look at her husband's side profile, side, said:
"In my view, Mr. u temporarily is not easy to find a suitable job, and to his character, and finally break such a situation from scratch, asking him to become the new wronged, he is not willing to it!"
"For you! Although his meteoric rise is not how, but he is not fit posture problems, which I certainly understand, but they dare not straightforward to persuade him, I really was afraid he would not stand more, thinking my wife do because he lost his job to look down on him! "
"Yes! The best understanding of the husband is his wife, his self-esteem is very strong, a lot of this point u must be magnanimous, some things do not speak clear, otherwise it will inflame the best way is patience, the most important thing is to let him u who feel that he is the focus of the family is the most important person, u are not without him, so he figured it would be more positive. "
Ms. Wu listened, face revealing a trace of disappointment is inevitable, is the only way, so we can let the extreme frustration husband perk up?
Master of Yi-Kwei Chen certainly could see her mind, then immediately was waved her not too nervous:
"I'm just a little just to recommend u direction, the other still a lot we need to do, I believe, at this point now, sir u is not easy to listen into what recommendations can even say very difficult to communicate, So, u have to enhance their persuasiveness ...... "
"You are saying that eloquence to strengthen it?"
"Oh! That would not, so-called persuasive communication skills in just one, depending on the object may be, sometimes a gesture, a look, or even a smile, a few tears, was more effective than a torrent of eloquence, The whole see you high how clever to use "Master of Yi-Kwei Chen gestures with gestures:" So, I suggest u can start changing the structure of the diet to increase convincing, it is easier to accept Mr. Wu insights. "
"Oh! That how to change it?"
"Ah that from now on:! Every morning, with a hundred CC's acid fermentation of milk, plus a fresh apple, even playing with fruit juice machine, as a general juice drink, adding grain" K「w13 "Well, there figure to u now, if you do not intend to lose weight body sculpting, u can eat other usual diet breakfast! So you at this section will be no problem, but not like now so upset, remember! There is no can not solve things, recession is only temporary, but the days go on is the need for a long time, temporary frustration will pass, "
"Ah!" Ms. Wu side of the pen in mind that one side nodded.
"Well, let us look at Mr. your PROBLEM." Master of Yi-Kwei Chen see the information side, the side wondering: "! Since Mr. Wu temporary job seekers are less suited to go to eat someone else's head the way, I would recommend his best start their own businesses."
"Wow! This age, and re-start, it is not too difficult?"
"Not at all! Do not think so serious, so-called entrepreneurs do not necessarily cast a lot of money to run again, as long as willing to do, empty-handed can also start ah!"
Ms. Wu was somewhat puzzled, she asked:
"That do that aspect of venture capital can not it?"
"Oh! Capital money does not necessarily refer to such labor is also a capital Well, of course, I would not recommend u go to the site to pick Mr. carry soil to make bricks rent living matter, however, since he likes to play with cars, u have existing seven People minibus can also be used as paraphernalia ah! "
"Total will not call him to set up a stall to sell fast food, right?"
"Nah! For example, the tool can be used when transporting, right guests to and from the carrier's airport or station in what country, not only work easier, the time is relatively free, there is no need to invest money anyway, just use the car ready to earn extra money."
"Ah! I would not do it, someone else called him as a driver, he must pull no less than the face!"
"You know how he must have refused?" Master of Yi-Kwei Chen shouted out: "on the whole depends on u convincing, so-called tricks everyone changes, and clever vary, it should not start u He said a formal job, saying only that some colleagues and friends help load and then expand the level, go to the line number and some of the companies to attract, I know a lot of companies do not have their own fixed line number of transport vehicles, and even some small travel agencies, too, If the customer becomes more slowly, income is also very impressive mile! "
"Oh! Oh!" Ms. Wu finally listen to some, seems to think this is also very good, if not official, Mr. least not bounce too much fishes.
"Anyway, they do not go on forever, a little more contact with the outside world, holding" on horseback looking horse "mentality, you might serendipitously can also find other work better that way!"
Ms. Wu listened to Master of such a proposal Yi-Kwei Chen, of course, that may well be the most effective in front of a quote recipe, then nodded that he is willing to accept, however, then asked:
"But, my husband also need to change the present situation it?"
"Oh! He's diet should be some adjustments in order to let him out of the shadows as soon as possible, become as active as ever optimistic."
"Ah! Really? Really can let him back to normal!
"Of course is true! It is not difficult, as long as the first adjust the diet, make perseverance, I see at most a week to ten days, his mood will be completely changed." Master of Yi-Kwei Chen said with confidence.
"Wow! If you really like this, I really do not know how to thank you for?" Ms. Wu immediately exposed overjoyed smile, he had that look like Sudden Impact also like haze swept away.
"Good! Part sir u, and every morning, the same is with 100cc of" acid fermentation of milk, "plus a fresh apple, even playing with fruit juice machine, as a general juice drink, adding grain" g complement ‧ zinc "enough, if the amount is not enough to fight, and they can eat other gentlemen u his usual habit of breakfast! ʱ??
"Oh! Oh!" Ms. Wu Chen quickly master pen to record the instructions, one side very grateful nod praise ......
She was very happy watching the Master of Yi-Kwei Chen and thank after leaving a consultant
Of course, this is the Master of Yi-Kwei Chen talked about it at the most admired and, because he does not just give people valuable advice, better give the most precious thing 「w「w is "infinite hope."