Bazi application explanation (37) Official-ZhengGuan and Marriage - I Ching -
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Bazi application explanation (37) Official-ZhengGuan and Marriage

(Dr. Chen Yi Kui)

Everyone has illusions, who will produce a perfect illusion? Marrying a husband or wife will have an American illusion, a woman with a formal official, when she wants to get married, she has a beautiful illusion, so many people who understand BaZi, take his daughter to me, he said: My daughter's character is not bad, the official is so clear, so beautiful, why can't she find a good boyfriend? I said a woman who received orthodox education at the time, the performance should be dignified and reticent. The question is who knows what is inside of her? If a woman has a lively personality, she will be stopped halfway.

Finally, I told him that your daughter can’t work like this. He said why not? I said she must go and make more friends with friends. He said those men are not decent. I said which decent do you think your daughter is going to marry? Decent people already marry their wives.

Remember, you want to find a decent one every day, people have already been ordered. This is a matter of concept. There are many people who think that a good official is good, but a woman with a good official cannot be too weak, and it will be miserable when she is too weak. So you just married a prestigious family, and you do have the official marries into a prestigious family, in the end, she enters the cold palace, seals you into a queen, and her husband goes to find a concubine. What do you do at this time? There are too many examples.

Some girls have no official, so their family members ask, the official is the husband, her daughter does not have the official, is there no husband? I said not like that.

Why do people check if there is a formal official before marrying a wife? Because the wife should be dignified and cautious, and she has the virtue of the mother's world, so a woman with a formal official will immediately go marry on a blind date. But women with official looks in each other's eyes or not? Some people won’t marry if they don't, so women who have ZhengGuan probably fall in love with people who make many girlfriends. Why? Very dignified, the mother of the world becomes the queen. After you become the queen, the emperor has many concubines, so if you are a queen, you will like people like the emperor, that is, people who like fooling around, in fact, the emperor is the most.

Those who study fortune telling are not very rational in studying the nature of human beings. Fortune tellers need to understand the true human nature. Your fortune telling is meaningful, not something written on a dead memorization. Many women go to fortune telling and are afraid to hear that their husband has peach blossoms and what to do if there are so many peach blossoms? I said that it doesn’t matter. Let him bloom and just no peach. Isn’t this peach coming down to be Momotaro? ? So it is difficult, because our traditional fortune telling education and this fortune telling model have been engaged for two or three hundred years, and the model has been set.

I have studied fortune telling so well, why don’t I tell fortune telling? I tell students not to talk about fortune telling when talking online, why? Because of the different backgrounds, you used the previous model to calculate your present life is not decent. The things you say make the other party feel out of place. The other party has always said that her husband is very popular outside. The peach blossoms are very prosperous. You must congratulate her and say your husband is very healthy and does not need you to take care of him. If no one wants him outside, lie on the bed every day and let you take care of him, your wife's demise is dead. You need to know that your husband must be very popular outside, so he won’t come back to rely on his wife, ask his wife to cook for him, and ask others to invite him to eat. Why don’t you want this kind of husband? That's it! .

The principle of leverage. If he is going to make a girlfriend, I will make a boyfriend here. Let's balance the two of us. This kind of marriage can last for a long time. There are two kinds of love. The love in the times when men and women gave birth to unkindness is the real love, which can live for you and die for you. In today's materialistic society, it is easy to find a woman or a man and will not be tied to each other.

Fortune-telling is very simple to judge whether she loves him by looking at the two characters. You have to see if he is lucky now? Good luck can make money, she will love him, if bad luck, he keeps telling why she didn’t love me? I said that you are so unlucky now, no one will love you if you have no money to eat a bowl of beef noodles? At this time, he will ask if she will love him if you look at the female character? You have to tell him to work hard to earn money then she will love you with money.

There is indeed a relationship between a woman having a decent official and dignity, but a woman having a decent official does not necessarily mean marrying a good husband. Why is a woman so dignified and so beautiful without a good husband? Not necessarily, why? You need to be modest and strong, isn't it modest when the official is clear? If it is not strong, the official becomes a bogey.

The same is true for men. Does anyone really love you? You have to be rich, so you can be talented when a man is rich. People who are weak and with many Cai deceive people from the south to the north.

2022-06-21