Explanation of the Eight Characters Problem (5) Born in Ji Si day, Yin or Mao month
Question: A woman born on the day of Ji Si, who was born in Yin or Mao month, has heard of several similar cases. Why do they have debts due to their husbands or natal families, and even encounter marital violence? Is it due to the difference in the month of birth? The difference?
Answer: In general, Yin month’s women probably interfere more with their natal family, and Mao month may interfere more with their husband’s side. Then you must have a boundary. Yin month’s women’s natal family interferes a lot. If it is Mao month’s, because one's own opinion is relatively high, it will be like this in her husband's house. In this way, this person will not accept the interference of her natal family, and will automatically be very autonomous. This is a difference in the personality of the month.
The issue of violence and non-violence, I think Taiwanese men depend on how long their ancestors have been here, and it’s important on which area rice they ate. I have read for so many years, if the ancestors had lived in Chiayi for a long time, seven out of ten men would beat their wives. Why are so many people beaten? Because her attitude causes her to be beaten. Sometimes why was her husband beaten? Because his attitude was disgusting, how could she not punch him twice?
